okay i went to my first al anon meeting finally after being so nervous of going, it has made me think about so much already. the topic today was problem solving and they talked about how you might want to provide like, resolutions for people you know or care about with their problems but thaaaaat is not going to help them solve their own, or be on their own feet and that you cant help others with their problems because youre just going to make it worse because its theirs and they need to find their own solution and if you’re in a problem situation then you need to figure out your problem yourself, it might seem as though yours is like ending your world but you need to go through your head like “what do I need right now” and figure it out when you need to because that’s yours and just GAAAAH it was great im feeling awesome right now.
